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여친이 듣기싫은 전(ex)여친 이야기 Best 10

May 7, 2009 by  

 

살다보면, 머리가 둔해서 고생하는 경우도 있지만,
우리의 입을 단속하지 못해서 발생하는 오해와 난관 도 참 많은 것 같다.

오늘은 소리없이 연인과의 돈독한 관계를 잡아먹는 “여친이 듣기싫은 전(ex)여친 이야기 Best 10” 을 나누고자 한다.

No.10 “그녀는 스킨쉽이 영 서툴렀지”

이렇게 말하는 남성은 덜(!)떨어진 사람이거나 아니면, 백전 백패의 띄워주기 게임의 패자가 될 운명에 봉착한다. 절대로 여성에게 전 여친과의 성적인 과거를 장난스럽게 이야기 하거나, 어떻게 헤어졌는지 대해서 떠들지 마라.

이는 당신이 매너가 없는 사람이라고 생각하게 함은 물론, 다른 여성과 스킨쉽을 하는것 상상하는 것만으로도 듣고 있는 여성의 마음을 닫아 버린다.

혹시 가졌던 키스하고 싶은 마음도 쏴악 달아나 버릴수 있다.

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No.9 “갸 몸매가 모델이었지” “얼굴이 정말 예뻤지”

“그녀는 너무 예뻤다.~”하는 박진영의 노래가사가 생각나는 말이다.
남자친구들에 하듯 이런 말을 무심코 내뱉었다가 여성들의 섬세하고도 이율배반적인 판단에 걸릴수 있는 것이다.
여성들은 전 여친이 매력이 전혀 없었다고 하면, 당신의 능력이 살짝 의심(?)스럽고 반대로 여친이 모델수준이었다는 말을 들으면, 질투심 내지는 스스로 자격지심까지도 들수 있다.

전 여친이 어땠냐고 물었을때는, ‘그냥 괜찮았어’ 로 말하면서 다정하게 어깨를 톡톡 쳐서 격려해 주는것도 좋은 방법이다.

No.8 “그녀는 성격 참 좋고 귀여웠지, 주위에서 완전 베스트 커플로 뽑았었잖아.”

이 말은 여성에게는 이렇게 들릴수 있다.

“전 여친은 데이트한 사람중에서 가장 성격이 좋고, 다른 어떤 커플보다도 최고의 앙꼬 커플이었어.” 이 말을 한 10번만 반복해서 자신에게 해봐라…

반대로, 여자가 남자인 당신에게 한다고 해도 기분좋지 않을것 같은데… 어떻겠는가?

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No.7 “그녀는 옷 잘 입는게 장난이 아니었어. “

옷잘입는 여친 둬서 많이 좋았었나? 대부분 여성들은 좋아하는 사람에게 매력적으로 보여주고 싶은 스타일의 옷이 있다. 그런데 전 여친이 너무 옷을 잘입었다는 말을 듣고, 패션 심사위원이된 남자 친구앞에서 비교 대상이 된다는 것은 유쾌한 일이 아니다. 당신이 디자인해서 선물할 것 아니라면, 여성 패션에 대해 잘 아는척하는 것이 그다지 바람직 하지 않다.

No.6 “그녀는 일도 하면서, 3개국어 배우고, 책도 내고, 몸관리도 잘하고 그 많은걸 어떻게 다 하는지 대단했어”

자기개발에 관심없는 여성을 봤나?
당신이 떠들지 않아도, 여친은 TV 방송에 나오는 수퍼우먼 같은 여자들의 성공담을 들을 때 마다, 자신의 모습에 대해서 자문하고 노력하고 있을것이다.

많은 여성들의 마음은 당신의 그 수퍼우먼 전(ex)여친처럼 살고 싶다.

이런 말들을 한뒤 여친이 앞으로 일과 자기개발에 치여서, 당신을 만날 시간이 없다고 하게 된다면, 달리는 여친의 엉덩이에 채찍질한 당신에게 상당한 책임이 있다.

(다음 페이지 있음)

반응을 보고 데이트팁 연재를 결정하려 함다. 추천은 더 좋은 포스팅을 위한 힘!


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